Solidarity for developing communities

CASE STUDY 3

“I don’t want to get married right now, nor will I study at local College I want to continue my studies in science. After all, It’s about my life and my rights’’ Said Bindi ( name Changed) a 16- year- old Bindi was a bright student studying in standard 10th, in the tribal residential school in Goudagotha Panchyat of Surada block under the Ganjam District of Odisha. She had big dreams of completing her education which would enable her to stand herself and to do something meaningful in her life by becoming a model for the conservative communities. Where the communities don’t allow girls children’s to study higher education or university level. All of Sudden, she was pushed into a situation that made her feel that she would need to let go of her dreams. It was like someone had put the brakes on her hopes of life and aspiration to become the Role model of the Village. Though Ms.Bindi qualified with scoring good percentage from the high school but was not allowed to go for higher education.

On a visit back home during her summer holidays, she was shocked to learn that her parents were arranging someone for her to marry to a 25- year-old distance relative.

On a visit back home during her summer holidays, she was shocked to learn that her parents were arranging someone for her to marry to a 25- year-old distance relative. Soon after, he started Visiting Bindi’s home regularly and tried to coerce her into a physical relationship. she was horrified and narrated this ordeal to her mother, but it had little effect. It was in school level that Bindi had first learnt about the harmful practice of child marriage in a session by the Life Skills

Education Programme. She was taught about the legal age of marriage, the ill effects of teenage pregnancies and the rights she was entitled to as a young girl. She tried very hard to convince her parents about her string desire to study further, and pursue a career and make a name for herself. But they were unbending and gave her no assurances, due to communities’ pressures and the economical hardships they were facing. Bindi remained undeterred. She was resolute in challenging the age-old scourge and     

     following through on her decision. When obstacles arise, change your direction, not your decision She shared her decisions with her closed friend who was a peer educator in the programme. Together, they approached the ANM near to her school, who after hearing them, counseled the young girl, and alerted the school matrons and headmaster. Supporter of Bindi were proud of her unshakable grit to challenge this societal tradition detrimental to the empowerment and freedom of girls. Today, Bindi is pursuing her higher secondary education and strives to be change agent by creating awareness in her own community on child marriage and related laws (Under prohibition of child marriage act)

Bindi is an inspiration for other girl’s students. She wanted to become an independent and successful girl who could take care of her parents. Her journey towards achieving dream has just started, said the proud village community President Mr. Bhagirathi Gouda.